I've been meaning to come down to Abuja for about 3 weeks now for a couple of follow ups at the ministry and some other parastatals but Lag hol me tight.finally i entered Abuja on Monday 13th.went to the ministry,did a fantastic meeting and went to catch up with my colleague who's been up here in the middle of a lots of stuff.after the meeting,its time to leave and i got settle in some comfy 5k Hotel(yes oo,5k! as man is here for 4days and in the middle of project. so no money for the usual Reiz Continental)
As we left the estate where my colleague is staying with an aunt,it starts drizzlling.sleeping at his aunts was not an option cos she's not one to bump into and moreso she's got her relatives all around too.so as the drizzling gets harder we decided to run back home and ask her to at least let him use her car to drop me at the gate.so we start running back .when we pass a wine ultima with two guys reversing to drive out, i stopped them and ask if they were going to the estate gate and i could join them.They said fine.(when my friend got home he told his aunt how i got the ride and said to her he was sure they would not just take me to the gate, but the hotel i was going.well it was more than that)
As we approached the gate,i looked at the time,twaz few mins to eight(i hate nights in Abuja.Dark,Lonely and Scary) and the place was dark of course with no cabs so i ask if they were headed to town and i could join.we started chatting and i introduced myself.the guy who was driving had actually been watching my programme and he's also PA to someone in Govt.who i have been chasing.He He!see how God works.so just lak dat,we start hunting for hotels.he took me to six!this guy who we just met,who had his own agenda for the evening.mmh!he at some point had to say'guy u must be very nice oo'for me to just be taking u around like this.and i just smile say'Na God oo.
Of the 6, 4 were booked two were just too crappy for five grand and so he just said ,hey,lets go back to the estate and am like really?and he's like yea...so we went on his own parole and when done stopped by for some nice kilishi and roasted chicken.
when we got to the hooouseee,it was a........................................................
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lol! small, cozy self contain.
He fried some nice dodo and stew(great cook acssually)with the Chicken and chilled water
we chatted and he's really a great guy,was in the media before too and i admire his vision and plans.he's off to Sierria leone the next day to spend time with his girlfriend.
we watched a movie.he slept off in the middle(not fearinG that i might kill him!!!).i made my plans for the next day and dozed off at about 1 am.
First day-twaz a rough night, but ended well.
Wednesday, August 15, 2007
10 Days
i've just gone through a couple of blogs and some interesting,some boring,some with heavy followership and some sparringly and some none!
i saw a particular one that has no comments at all but every post start's with...
hi people.hey ma favourite people.hello my sweet friends.and the likes.am about to start a piece now but knowing well that the last comments i got was four posts away,i do not know what to start with.....so i just say...U na well done ni ooo.
I've always said that i am not the person that sits on the net for too long.i say to myself everyday that its just lazy.so i've decided to take it step by step.i'll do a piece in every ten days at least...thinking of changing the blog name to 10days sef!but noo DebolaLagos get story.
so,pls drop by every ten days and you'll read something new and promise twill be interesting.
I've gpot loads of pictures to share with plenty plenty tori to follow.i just found my cord for my phone to laptop so get ready but sad news is that some muuuuurraaaafffuuccking(okay i take that back)smart phone engineer has just spoilt the cam of my fone and even has then gutts to say he doesn't like the way am talking to him becos he's few,i mean few years older than me.so i might not be able to take my 'on the move' pics till i get a new one..accsssually mabye its God saying...come son,go get ur blackberry.
as in everyone get blackberry for lagos oo.Lagos big boys like us soppose buy too now just for show even if we no need am. abi how u see am?
But as i always say really,i will marry when i want!
i saw a particular one that has no comments at all but every post start's with...
hi people.hey ma favourite people.hello my sweet friends.and the likes.am about to start a piece now but knowing well that the last comments i got was four posts away,i do not know what to start with.....so i just say...U na well done ni ooo.
I've always said that i am not the person that sits on the net for too long.i say to myself everyday that its just lazy.so i've decided to take it step by step.i'll do a piece in every ten days at least...thinking of changing the blog name to 10days sef!but noo DebolaLagos get story.
so,pls drop by every ten days and you'll read something new and promise twill be interesting.
I've gpot loads of pictures to share with plenty plenty tori to follow.i just found my cord for my phone to laptop so get ready but sad news is that some muuuuurraaaafffuuccking(okay i take that back)smart phone engineer has just spoilt the cam of my fone and even has then gutts to say he doesn't like the way am talking to him becos he's few,i mean few years older than me.so i might not be able to take my 'on the move' pics till i get a new one..accsssually mabye its God saying...come son,go get ur blackberry.
as in everyone get blackberry for lagos oo.Lagos big boys like us soppose buy too now just for show even if we no need am. abi how u see am?
But as i always say really,i will marry when i want!
Thursday, August 9, 2007
motor wahala
its been one week of jumping buses,taxi's and my love, okada.yes oo my love.i might not have the nerve to ride a bike but i cant do without my okada cos Lag traffic no be small thing.its been an experience really.the okada's always overthrowing each other and its always like some crazy bike race.they pass between trailers and busses u think u r in some american movie.after my last meeting tonight at Jazz sessions,a new jazz restaurant on Ozumba Mbadiwe in VI.i jumped a bike to Eko hotel round about say make i catch taxi but after waiting 20mins,it seemed like they were all on holidays so i caught the next Ojuelegba;Costain bus.the driver seeing the crowd hiked his price from i think 80 bucks for costain and 100 to Ojuelegba to 120 and 150.the passengers protested but he refused.me,i no get power so i entered and a few people too.he kept on making noise about how he'll get more passengers on the road and it doesnt make sense to pick pple for even 100 bucks from roundabout becos the passengers he'll pick halfway will be 100bucks too.i really wished God will punish this man and he answered my prayer becos we got to costain on short 5 and we that he picked paid him 100bucks which he shud have charged and gotten full bus from roundabout.so instead of making 1,400 he made 900 bucks.
Friday, July 27, 2007
20 days after...
yeeellllo!!!!!!!!!!!!!yea, silly me,after i promised to always keep up on the blog.well,am here now and i need to update you on the gist.
20 days later.....my friend calls me again,this time i knew it was pregnancy so as soon as i saw him i started hailing, ;Papa Junior!!!' but he said no.i was thankfull to God.after hangin out for a while,he says she's been spitting and throwing up,her body movement has kind of changed.He noticed it too and last night she called him and said she might be pregnant.few days before this i had had disscussions with some people about unwanted pregnancies,abortions and all that so it was like a nightmare.Go for a test tommorrow i said.the results came out and was negative.the doctor then advised they wait a few more days to see her period.The period never came!they were both worried,i mean how would you say it,they bring a girl to stay in your house as a favour to her family and you impregnate her?Abortions was not an option either,but my friend was more worried than i was.the next day they went to a doctor who did some injection method and its get more crazzzy.......
After the injection,they then have to do a ritual......(i call it ritual because am not sure they were to enjoy it) of sleeping together again!twice!!!!! to clear whatever it is,i dunno.i was sad and worried but the deed had been done.They went back to certify but were told incomplete abortion because he didnt sleep with her properly,so they had to go through the whole ritual again.this time you wont believe how it went....he recounts that she was clawing and clasping,begging for more and moaning.... .when they went back doctor said,complete!On the way out of the hospital the nurse calls the girl,i know you she says,i know your mother too...at that point my friend wished the ground would open and swallow him.she went on,i did it because i have a daughter too who has a future and i cant afford to let her be kept back by preganancy if it was her(i think thats weird,killing a life to save a future?)go and be a good girl.The drama should have been over but no.the girl has now opened up so much and turned very vocal.she barely does stuff around the house anymore,argues with my friend when they talk.refuses errands not sadly now.no, but some arrogance.
She's done with her exams but she hasn't mentioned leaving the house.these days she stays in the sitting room till late watching whatever he's watching,she looks at him half the time ,tries to get herself on the three seater couch whenever he's sitting on it.he's worried that she'e trying to seducing and thats adding to his irritation.
Today is the fifth time in a row my friend will complain about her still staying in the house.and my response to him?i just laugh.Reaping what you've sown brother...
He had asked for her forgiveness and she has agreed,i arranged they met a counsellor but they havent come round to that.
but she is still behaving funny ,she seems to be wearing loose clothes lately and still behave tired/lazy...what if she's still pregnant?pretending its gone so that it can advance and then she can hook me...thats my friends new fear....
20 days later.....my friend calls me again,this time i knew it was pregnancy so as soon as i saw him i started hailing, ;Papa Junior!!!' but he said no.i was thankfull to God.after hangin out for a while,he says she's been spitting and throwing up,her body movement has kind of changed.He noticed it too and last night she called him and said she might be pregnant.few days before this i had had disscussions with some people about unwanted pregnancies,abortions and all that so it was like a nightmare.Go for a test tommorrow i said.the results came out and was negative.the doctor then advised they wait a few more days to see her period.The period never came!they were both worried,i mean how would you say it,they bring a girl to stay in your house as a favour to her family and you impregnate her?Abortions was not an option either,but my friend was more worried than i was.the next day they went to a doctor who did some injection method and its get more crazzzy.......
After the injection,they then have to do a ritual......(i call it ritual because am not sure they were to enjoy it) of sleeping together again!twice!!!!! to clear whatever it is,i dunno.i was sad and worried but the deed had been done.They went back to certify but were told incomplete abortion because he didnt sleep with her properly,so they had to go through the whole ritual again.this time you wont believe how it went....he recounts that she was clawing and clasping,begging for more and moaning.... .when they went back doctor said,complete!On the way out of the hospital the nurse calls the girl,i know you she says,i know your mother too...at that point my friend wished the ground would open and swallow him.she went on,i did it because i have a daughter too who has a future and i cant afford to let her be kept back by preganancy if it was her(i think thats weird,killing a life to save a future?)go and be a good girl.The drama should have been over but no.the girl has now opened up so much and turned very vocal.she barely does stuff around the house anymore,argues with my friend when they talk.refuses errands not sadly now.no, but some arrogance.
She's done with her exams but she hasn't mentioned leaving the house.these days she stays in the sitting room till late watching whatever he's watching,she looks at him half the time ,tries to get herself on the three seater couch whenever he's sitting on it.he's worried that she'e trying to seducing and thats adding to his irritation.
Today is the fifth time in a row my friend will complain about her still staying in the house.and my response to him?i just laugh.Reaping what you've sown brother...
He had asked for her forgiveness and she has agreed,i arranged they met a counsellor but they havent come round to that.
but she is still behaving funny ,she seems to be wearing loose clothes lately and still behave tired/lazy...what if she's still pregnant?pretending its gone so that it can advance and then she can hook me...thats my friends new fear....
Friday, July 13, 2007
She wanted it but didnt say yes...Does that make sense?
I walked into my friends house from work at 10;15pm on a thursday.He was sitting on the three seater watching TV,curled up on his side was Sola.She's come to live wth them because her family relocated to Ikorodu and it wasnt too convinient for her school which was in Surulere so they made an arrangement with my friends father to please let her stay till she finished her SSCE exams.My friends father i do not understand,for i have never seen such a liberal soul.He took her in like his daughter and everything was going ok.But this night,i felt uncomfortable with how she was curled close to my friend,her head was rubbing against his leg sef!she woke up not too long after my entrance and stood up to go in,she was wearing a perfect fit pencil jeans with spaghetti top that allowed half her boobs out(it was a sexy sight i must admit,and that worried me more).She's such an innocent child in looks and quiet for that so you would ignore all that appeal,but my spirit wasnt going to be decieved.So i called uncle and asked if they were cutting show(having sex) and bros said NO!i say good,but i see danger so you have to cut yourself out and be very careful not to be too comfortable.Aaah!!norrin meeen,norrin laike dat!I say hear the words of the wise.He laughed but i didnt.
It was exactly 27days after,that my brother called me to come over,i said twaz going to be real busy day and he said to come and crash so i say cool.See ya.i got there dog tired and just wanted to sleep but of course not until i listened to him.We did it!3 nights ago.
She knelt by the couch like she had stomach ache or something,i dunno.but the backside was very ...very inviting.her waist was bare and i just grabbed her.Then i stopped,took it slowly,she struggled a bit but wasnt very hard so i took it for the normal girl posing.I asked if she didnt want it but no answer came.Thrice. So i went ahead..........................mmmmm,really i said like it was no issue.Did you have foreplay i asked(why you may wonder,i wanted to know how long and know if she enjoyed it or not.Because my friend is good looking,and so many times the girls kinda like him first.Am good looking too, excuse me!with a charming personality to add.but he, his good looks and quiet personality draws them to him.and to add to it,hes got six packs but me,na portruding belle o.so my dear miss i guess might have been tripping too)yes ,we had foreplay and in all these she was a little resistent but it wasnt different from a girl posing.(abeeg who fit tell me the difference between this my friend situation and girl wey no wan do?i need answer ooo).Did she respond when you penetrated,not really,she needs to learn how to show ectasy.i say shuo,she needs to learn?yea he said.she was moaning a bit but her face squeezed kind of. when i askedhow many rounds,i was just making a fool but i was shocked my ma paddy said two!haba!u do am by force do two times again?he smiled,she wanted it too.it isnt funny bro,you just raped a seventeen year old gal!once i said that,the gravity of what he had done dawned on me,but i wasnt still sure he got the message so i went down a couselling sessions with him(i didnt say earlier,i'v had some little training as counsellor,did a bitof human assessment so a lot of times am the Dr.Phil amongst my circle of friends)She had stopped speaking to him,she couldnt stand him or look at him.
She was ashamed i told him,she feels naked, shes lost her pride.rather,u stole her pride!Next step was to go and apologise till she forgives him and they both repent(yea,the christain part of me)
Tori still plenty o!Stick around.
It was exactly 27days after,that my brother called me to come over,i said twaz going to be real busy day and he said to come and crash so i say cool.See ya.i got there dog tired and just wanted to sleep but of course not until i listened to him.We did it!3 nights ago.
She knelt by the couch like she had stomach ache or something,i dunno.but the backside was very ...very inviting.her waist was bare and i just grabbed her.Then i stopped,took it slowly,she struggled a bit but wasnt very hard so i took it for the normal girl posing.I asked if she didnt want it but no answer came.Thrice. So i went ahead..........................mmmmm,really i said like it was no issue.Did you have foreplay i asked(why you may wonder,i wanted to know how long and know if she enjoyed it or not.Because my friend is good looking,and so many times the girls kinda like him first.Am good looking too, excuse me!with a charming personality to add.but he, his good looks and quiet personality draws them to him.and to add to it,hes got six packs but me,na portruding belle o.so my dear miss i guess might have been tripping too)yes ,we had foreplay and in all these she was a little resistent but it wasnt different from a girl posing.(abeeg who fit tell me the difference between this my friend situation and girl wey no wan do?i need answer ooo).Did she respond when you penetrated,not really,she needs to learn how to show ectasy.i say shuo,she needs to learn?yea he said.she was moaning a bit but her face squeezed kind of. when i askedhow many rounds,i was just making a fool but i was shocked my ma paddy said two!haba!u do am by force do two times again?he smiled,she wanted it too.it isnt funny bro,you just raped a seventeen year old gal!once i said that,the gravity of what he had done dawned on me,but i wasnt still sure he got the message so i went down a couselling sessions with him(i didnt say earlier,i'v had some little training as counsellor,did a bitof human assessment so a lot of times am the Dr.Phil amongst my circle of friends)She had stopped speaking to him,she couldnt stand him or look at him.
She was ashamed i told him,she feels naked, shes lost her pride.rather,u stole her pride!Next step was to go and apologise till she forgives him and they both repent(yea,the christain part of me)
Tori still plenty o!Stick around.
Thursday, July 12, 2007
Some thought's to share
I've been a lazy ass blogging.ive got loads of pictures and stuff i wanna talk about but my day's kinda really crazy and am not too good with sitting on the PC for so long but i really want to do this and will find time.
Today i was going through some old papers and came upon some poems i wrote a different times of my life way back and thogth to share them.....
I fear...
Something trouble's my heart
Something i dont understand
Something i cant really place
Something i dont know if i can face
My heart is heavy
And i feel nervy
I wonder what burden
with which am laden
I know not where to run
Not who to turn
To flee is cowardice
Pretense is never nice
I fear...I fear...
This was a phase i went through and funny enough i couldnt even place why.soon i felt like i had to flee from this feeling so i wrote another
I flee...
I flee from it
I flee from him
I flee from them
I flee from the unseen
I flee from the unfelt
I flee from the unheard
I flee from being bitten
I flee from being smitten
I flee into hiding
I flee from something
that i feel throbbing
though you may say nothing
but i still flee
I flee what i see not
I flee from that i know not
Still i couldnt place it.and as time went by it fizzled away.
looking back later,i had school,work,family and all to battle with at the sametime.Not loosing any and doing well at every.swarmped under that pressure couldnt even look to see the issues but,it passed by.
And talking about work as one of those issues,sometimes then i was worried if it was i who wasnt doing fantastic at work or the company itself and my boss that had the problem.
I had the battle with myself and expressed...
They say am in the wrong place
They say i cant run the race
They say ill be better in another phase
They say there i'll make a face
Andi take a deep breath
Deeper into my thoughts
bloom where you are planted
that is what i was thought
But...
What if theres no planter
What if there's no water
What if the land isnt fertile
What if the land has gone sterile
Oh ye wise heads
come take lead
arrange my lie beads
that i may take heed
I didnt get any help from the wise heads so i had to make my own decision and i look back today and thank God it paid off.it was a risk but i took it cos life of course is about risks.
Today i was going through some old papers and came upon some poems i wrote a different times of my life way back and thogth to share them.....
I fear...
Something trouble's my heart
Something i dont understand
Something i cant really place
Something i dont know if i can face
My heart is heavy
And i feel nervy
I wonder what burden
with which am laden
I know not where to run
Not who to turn
To flee is cowardice
Pretense is never nice
I fear...I fear...
This was a phase i went through and funny enough i couldnt even place why.soon i felt like i had to flee from this feeling so i wrote another
I flee...
I flee from it
I flee from him
I flee from them
I flee from the unseen
I flee from the unfelt
I flee from the unheard
I flee from being bitten
I flee from being smitten
I flee into hiding
I flee from something
that i feel throbbing
though you may say nothing
but i still flee
I flee what i see not
I flee from that i know not
Still i couldnt place it.and as time went by it fizzled away.
looking back later,i had school,work,family and all to battle with at the sametime.Not loosing any and doing well at every.swarmped under that pressure couldnt even look to see the issues but,it passed by.
And talking about work as one of those issues,sometimes then i was worried if it was i who wasnt doing fantastic at work or the company itself and my boss that had the problem.
I had the battle with myself and expressed...
They say am in the wrong place
They say i cant run the race
They say ill be better in another phase
They say there i'll make a face
Andi take a deep breath
Deeper into my thoughts
bloom where you are planted
that is what i was thought
But...
What if theres no planter
What if there's no water
What if the land isnt fertile
What if the land has gone sterile
Oh ye wise heads
come take lead
arrange my lie beads
that i may take heed
I didnt get any help from the wise heads so i had to make my own decision and i look back today and thank God it paid off.it was a risk but i took it cos life of course is about risks.
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