20 days after...

yeeellllo!!!!!!!!!!!!!yea, silly me,after i promised to always keep up on the blog.well,am here now and i need to update you on the gist.
20 days later.....my friend calls me again,this time i knew it was pregnancy so as soon as i saw him i started hailing, ;Papa Junior!!!' but he said no.i was thankfull to God.after hangin out for a while,he says she's been spitting and throwing up,her body movement has kind of changed.He noticed it too and last night she called him and said she might be pregnant.few days before this i had had disscussions with some people about unwanted pregnancies,abortions and all that so it was like a nightmare.Go for a test tommorrow i said.the results came out and was negative.the doctor then advised they wait a few more days to see her period.The period never came!they were both worried,i mean how would you say it,they bring a girl to stay in your house as a favour to her family and you impregnate her?Abortions was not an option either,but my friend was more worried than i was.the next day they went to a doctor who did some injection method and its get more crazzzy.......
After the injection,they then have to do a ritual......(i call it ritual because am not sure they were to enjoy it) of sleeping together again!twice!!!!! to clear whatever it is,i dunno.i was sad and worried but the deed had been done.They went back to certify but were told incomplete abortion because he didnt sleep with her properly,so they had to go through the whole ritual again.this time you wont believe how it went....he recounts that she was clawing and clasping,begging for more and moaning.... .when they went back doctor said,complete!On the way out of the hospital the nurse calls the girl,i know you she says,i know your mother too...at that point my friend wished the ground would open and swallow him.she went on,i did it because i have a daughter too who has a future and i cant afford to let her be kept back by preganancy if it was her(i think thats weird,killing a life to save a future?)go and be a good girl.The drama should have been over but no.the girl has now opened up so much and turned very vocal.she barely does stuff around the house anymore,argues with my friend when they talk.refuses errands not sadly now.no, but some arrogance.
She's done with her exams but she hasn't mentioned leaving the house.these days she stays in the sitting room till late watching whatever he's watching,she looks at him half the time ,tries to get herself on the three seater couch whenever he's sitting on it.he's worried that she'e trying to seducing and thats adding to his irritation.
Today is the fifth time in a row my friend will complain about her still staying in the house.and my response to him?i just laugh.Reaping what you've sown brother...
He had asked for her forgiveness and she has agreed,i arranged they met a counsellor but they havent come round to that.
but she is still behaving funny ,she seems to be wearing loose clothes lately and still behave tired/lazy...what if she's still pregnant?pretending its gone so that it can advance and then she can hook me...thats my friends new fear....

She wanted it but didnt say yes...Does that make sense?

I walked into my friends house from work at 10;15pm on a thursday.He was sitting on the three seater watching TV,curled up on his side was Sola.She's come to live wth them because her family relocated to Ikorodu and it wasnt too convinient for her school which was in Surulere so they made an arrangement with my friends father to please let her stay till she finished her SSCE exams.My friends father i do not understand,for i have never seen such a liberal soul.He took her in like his daughter and everything was going ok.But this night,i felt uncomfortable with how she was curled close to my friend,her head was rubbing against his leg sef!she woke up not too long after my entrance and stood up to go in,she was wearing a perfect fit pencil jeans with spaghetti top that allowed half her boobs out(it was a sexy sight i must admit,and that worried me more).She's such an innocent child in looks and quiet for that so you would ignore all that appeal,but my spirit wasnt going to be decieved.So i called uncle and asked if they were cutting show(having sex) and bros said NO!i say good,but i see danger so you have to cut yourself out and be very careful not to be too comfortable.Aaah!!norrin meeen,norrin laike dat!I say hear the words of the wise.He laughed but i didnt.

It was exactly 27days after,that my brother called me to come over,i said twaz going to be real busy day and he said to come and crash so i say cool.See ya.i got there dog tired and just wanted to sleep but of course not until i listened to him.We did it!3 nights ago.

She knelt by the couch like she had stomach ache or something,i dunno.but the backside was very ...very inviting.her waist was bare and i just grabbed her.Then i stopped,took it slowly,she struggled a bit but wasnt very hard so i took it for the normal girl posing.I asked if she didnt want it but no answer came.Thrice. So i went ahead..........................mmmmm,really i said like it was no issue.Did you have foreplay i asked(why you may wonder,i wanted to know how long and know if she enjoyed it or not.Because my friend is good looking,and so many times the girls kinda like him first.Am good looking too, excuse me!with a charming personality to add.but he, his good looks and quiet personality draws them to him.and to add to it,hes got six packs but me,na portruding belle o.so my dear miss i guess might have been tripping too)yes ,we had foreplay and in all these she was a little resistent but it wasnt different from a girl posing.(abeeg who fit tell me the difference between this my friend situation and girl wey no wan do?i need answer ooo).Did she respond when you penetrated,not really,she needs to learn how to show ectasy.i say shuo,she needs to learn?yea he said.she was moaning a bit but her face squeezed kind of. when i askedhow many rounds,i was just making a fool but i was shocked my ma paddy said two!haba!u do am by force do two times again?he smiled,she wanted it too.it isnt funny bro,you just raped a seventeen year old gal!once i said that,the gravity of what he had done dawned on me,but i wasnt still sure he got the message so i went down a couselling sessions with him(i didnt say earlier,i'v had some little training as counsellor,did a bitof human assessment so a lot of times am the Dr.Phil amongst my circle of friends)She had stopped speaking to him,she couldnt stand him or look at him.
She was ashamed i told him,she feels naked, shes lost her pride.rather,u stole her pride!Next step was to go and apologise till she forgives him and they both repent(yea,the christain part of me)

Tori still plenty o!Stick around.

Some thought's to share

I've been a lazy ass blogging.ive got loads of pictures and stuff i wanna talk about but my day's kinda really crazy and am not too good with sitting on the PC for so long but i really want to do this and will find time.
Today i was going through some old papers and came upon some poems i wrote a different times of my life way back and thogth to share them.....


I fear...
Something trouble's my heart
Something i dont understand
Something i cant really place
Something i dont know if i can face

My heart is heavy
And i feel nervy
I wonder what burden
with which am laden

I know not where to run
Not who to turn
To flee is cowardice
Pretense is never nice

I fear...I fear...


This was a phase i went through and funny enough i couldnt even place why.soon i felt like i had to flee from this feeling so i wrote another

I flee...
I flee from it
I flee from him
I flee from them

I flee from the unseen
I flee from the unfelt
I flee from the unheard

I flee from being bitten
I flee from being smitten
I flee into hiding

I flee from something
that i feel throbbing
though you may say nothing
but i still flee

I flee what i see not
I flee from that i know not

Still i couldnt place it.and as time went by it fizzled away.
looking back later,i had school,work,family and all to battle with at the sametime.Not loosing any and doing well at every.swarmped under that pressure couldnt even look to see the issues but,it passed by.

And talking about work as one of those issues,sometimes then i was worried if it was i who wasnt doing fantastic at work or the company itself and my boss that had the problem.
I had the battle with myself and expressed...

They say am in the wrong place
They say i cant run the race
They say ill be better in another phase
They say there i'll make a face

Andi take a deep breath
Deeper into my thoughts
bloom where you are planted
that is what i was thought

But...
What if theres no planter
What if there's no water
What if the land isnt fertile
What if the land has gone sterile

Oh ye wise heads
come take lead
arrange my lie beads
that i may take heed


I didnt get any help from the wise heads so i had to make my own decision and i look back today and thank God it paid off.it was a risk but i took it cos life of course is about risks.